I am told I am too motivated?

I am going into 9th grade and already have my whole life planned out. My friends are always telling me to relax and stop worrying about how things are going to play out, but I can't help it. I absolutely love school, learning, and experiencing new cultures. Going out to party and have fun with friends seems like a very unattractive option when I should be studying and preparing myself for schoolwork and researching colleges. Next year, I will be attending a school which sustains the International Baccalaureatte curriculum and will be quite difficult. Currently, I am learning Italian and AP Biology by myself. My friends are getting very tired of me always talking about school and knowledge and how that's how I'm going to be able to make my imprint on society. What do I say to them to accept me, or am I the one with the problem? Any help is appreciated, Thank you.